A practical guide to separation in New Zealand , designed to help you navigate the complexities of ending a relationship providing clear explanations of your options, highlights potential challenges, and helping you prepare for the decisions ahead.

Whether you can handle matters yourself or need expert assistance, this resource will help you through the process, and approach conversations with confidence. Whilst not a substitute for individual legal or financial advice, it will better prepare you for interactions with professionals.

You are your best advocate.

“You speak directly to people who are likely overwhelmed, giving them agency and concrete tips for things they can actually do. Your style makes the material very approachable and digestible.” — Bill Rainey, Mediator/Barrister/Artist

“I wish I’d had the Practical Guide to Divorce and Separation in New Zealand when I went through my own divorce, many years ago! It’s practical, sensible, and packed with the links and the know how you need before starting the process. I highly recommend everyone begin by reading this book and engaging a Divorce Coach first and foremost — together they provide clarity, confidence, and the support needed to understand and navigate such a difficult life transition!” — Kimberlee Sweeney, NZ’s 1st certified divorce coach and Co-Founder ADSI